Indecent dressing.

What is indecent dressing? By my definition, it is wearing clothes that are not appropriate for a particular occasion or situation. It is not indecent to go naked in the bathroom,in the  labour room  or in the bedroom with your partner. On the other hand,some clothes are not made for the sitting room, let alone the streets, such as the ones in these  pictures. The case of the bride is even more shocking.Some clothes are decent only as underwear,nighties, pinafores,etc.                         
The way you dress is the way you will be addressed. This makes me wonder why some women dress indecently in the name of fashion. Why should a bride go half-naked to the altar when some prostitutes wear hijabs to fool the Shariah Police? (http://news.onlinenigeria.com/templates/?a=351). If a man says he likes seeing you in skimpy dresses, he is not the man for you. He is a pimp. Would he encourage his sisters to dress like that? Tell him he
would look superb
in
transparent trousers and
watch
his reaction. He should lead by example. Men dress decently even when they are devils inside. Note the sharp contrast in dressing between the couple above.Don't be anybody's fool.
  NOTE:Some skimpy clothes could be worn outside decently under jackets,as pinafores ,etc. Others should be confined to the bedroom for your man's eyes only. Don't  flaunt what you cannot afford to give out freely to everyone , or it will be forcibly snatched from you and you will have yourself to blame.
PARTING SHOT

It is also possible to dress indecently without meaning to. A knee-length skirt or dress can expose your thighs when you have to bend down to pick something or climb up a staircase. Some otherwise-decent blouses expose your cleavage when you bend down.It is advisable to bend down when trying on new clothes at the boutique before paying for them.

A first impression is often the only impression.

Accept yourself

I am yet to meet someone who is totally satisfied with his or her looks. If you are depressed over a physical feature or two, consider the facts below:

*There is no perfect body shape. Everybody is beautiful in his/her own way. Throughout human history, there have been varying standards of beauty. However, I am yet to hear of a set of people who died single because their looks differed from the ideal look of their time. On the other hand,some beauty queens are accused of sleeping with the judges by those who do not consider them attractive enough.NO MATTER WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE, YOU CANNOT APPEAL TO EVERYBODY OR TO NOBODY.

*The best way to overcome body image problems is to observe other people in your leisure time. You will discover that everyone has his/her own assets and liabilities in the looks department. Also,what you dislike about yourself is often envied by others!

*Search Yahoo,Google ,etc for the record-holder in that area you are worried about and you will feel better. For example,see the tallest,shortest,lightest and heaviest persons at http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/science-news/6226095/Human-extremes-the-tallest-shortest-heaviest-and-lightest-people-ever.html .

* Learn to dress right for your body type instead of blindly following what is in vogue.

* Don't impersonate others. If you wear false breasts and hips, men who like your real body type will keep
away. Those who love big breasts and hips will run after you and dump you when they discover the real you (in bed ). Some women are dumped by one man after another for this deception.Remember, you can never appeal to everybody or to nobody. Be yourself in order to attract the right person. Bye for now.

PS: Read the inspiring story of the world's ugliest woman at www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/blackberry/p.html?id=1881011.

Accept yourself

Read about the inspiring story of the World's Ugliest Woman at
www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/blackberry/p.html?id=1881011

Food for thought

1. Sex is not synonymous with love. There is sex without love between prostitutes and their customers, and between rapists and their victims. There is love without sex between family members and between STRAIGHT (=not gay) friends of the same sex. Sex and love coexist only in HAPPY marriages. Don't allow yourself to be swindled.

2. Moral, like physical, cleanliness is not acquired once and for all. We need to bathe regularly to keep physically clean, no matter how good we are at avoiding contact with dirt. Similarly, we need to maintain and renew our moral cleanliness through a regular study of God's word and its application in our daily lives.

3. Indecent dressing is a subtle way of screaming out, " I'm proud to be a prostitute ". Even if you are not principled, pretend to be so. Restrict skimpy clothes for the right places (eg the bedroom).

4. Many people continue to dress indecently because they mistake the stares of shock for the stares of admiration. Turning heads is not always a good thing.

5. Illicit drugs are usually ingested and excreted by the couriers before they get to the final users. (e.g.,http://nationalmirroronline.net/sunday-mirror/big_read/19377.html). Stop eating shit.

6. The only permanent thing in life is change.
7. The fastest route  to a man's heart is through his stomach; the slowest route is through his d**k.