Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Accept yourself

I am yet to meet someone who is totally satisfied with his or her looks. If you are depressed over a physical feature or two, consider the facts below:

*There is no perfect body shape. Everybody is beautiful in his/her own way. Throughout human history, there have been varying standards of beauty. However, I am yet to hear of a set of people who died single because their looks differed from the ideal look of their time. On the other hand,some beauty queens are accused of sleeping with the judges by those who do not consider them attractive enough.NO MATTER WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE, YOU CANNOT APPEAL TO EVERYBODY OR TO NOBODY.

*The best way to overcome body image problems is to observe other people in your leisure time. You will discover that everyone has his/her own assets and liabilities in the looks department. Also,what you dislike about yourself is often envied by others!

*Search Yahoo,Google ,etc for the record-holder in that area you are worried about and you will feel better. For example,see the tallest,shortest,lightest and heaviest persons at http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/science-news/6226095/Human-extremes-the-tallest-shortest-heaviest-and-lightest-people-ever.html .

* Learn to dress right for your body type instead of blindly following what is in vogue.

* Don't impersonate others. If you wear false breasts and hips, men who like your real body type will keep
away. Those who love big breasts and hips will run after you and dump you when they discover the real you (in bed ). Some women are dumped by one man after another for this deception.Remember, you can never appeal to everybody or to nobody. Be yourself in order to attract the right person. Bye for now.

PS: Read the inspiring story of the world's ugliest woman at www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/blackberry/p.html?id=1881011.

2 comments:

Foluso said...
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Rose said...

If you read agony aunt columns,you will see people you envy wishing to have your body shape. The grass is always greener on the other side.

God made us different from one another for identification purposes. No look is superior or inferior to another. If everybody looks alike, people will be punished for crimes they know nothing about , people will commit incest unknowingly and the whole world will be upside down.